Sunday, January 16, 2011
For Cisgendered Spouses, Partners: sex with crossdressers
This isn't an advice post, but it is. Inspired by my own marriage. We don't have sex. Very often at least, averaging less than once a month since I've been out as a crossdresser/tg person. Not that I blame her, her man doesn't want to be a man, most of the time...so how does this translate to the bedroom.
Truthfully, I don't know.
I think that if your partner is willing playing with clothes might be satisfactory for both parties.
I am not saying you should get girlie with your SO, that would be great, but let's hold the panties and nighties for another occasion.
Suggest, instead, at some point in the foreplay that she wear some sexy underwear for you to rub, kiss, massage....to moisten and excite her. Heck get her off and then have her masturbate you with the aforementioned undergarments, in that matter you achieve skin on clothing contact, part of which is part of the attraction of the role of a woman...all those sexy clothes.